I have made many changes to be in the place I am now, committed to finding and identifying real solutions which I can share with you, my clients. I researched and found that being stripped of my womb and its contents meant I was in instant Menopause. I couldn’t share any of this because I was scared I would lose clients and friends, but the truth is, I am a REAL woman, with REAL problems and issues that affect REAL women. I’d like to strip away the focus on “fat” and move us into the light of feeling good about ourselves right now, as is, today. I don't look pregnant just fat. Taking deep breaths before and during work. My husband, God bless him, still tells me I'm beautiful, but I don't feel it AT ALL! Knowing where to start is half the battle – particularly when you look in the mirror and feel like a frump because you know that you’ve let yourself go. and I would leave that until much later. 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I assumed it was the warmth of the hospital. Any tips on making me feel better? I'm a mess. Never one to give up, I spent a fortune on all the tried and trusted treatments but nothing really worked for me. I dont know if this is even in the right place, if it isnt im sorry. “How did I end up frumpy?” This is a lament that I hear from women of a certain age who feel they’ve lost their style mojo and they’re not sure when and where they lost it. 10 Easy Ways to Look Instantly Less Frumpy. For the 33 million Americans who feel sluggish, spacey, and stressed out daily, Feeling Fat, Fuzzy, or Frazzled? Home Community October 2015. If you feel frumpy and old, don’t buy it. Blink Publishing. you go into your closet and go. Often characterized by sweatpants, frizzy hair, gramma panties and a paisty complexion. Instead of the quilt, it was my own clothes. However, as my own private summers increased, the gap between my husband and myself got bigger in the bed. I was not prepared to put my body through that when I was struggling already. Log in Sign up. Fat & frumpy. Feeling very fat and frumpy. One commenter vows that she’s “determined to turn from a fat frumpy forty something failure … into a fun fit fashionable fifty something.” I assume it's because I'm 44, fat and frumpy and feel no one wants to hang around me in real life, so having an online profile on facebook where no one can judge my physical appearance is nice. If you feel stylish and confident and it communicates the messages you desire to communicate, then get it! After just a month I started to feel better. April 6, 2015 at 5:44 am. I want to exercise more, too! So off to my GP I went. This is my third pregnancy so I know that if you just keep dwelling on your misery, you'll never feel better. All night long this game would go on, well until 3am because this was another change, I was now an early riser, a very early riser. Not only was I wearing baggy clothes but now I was entering another new experience. I feel it is important to disclose something about my own personal struggles and the road I have travelled which has brought me to this point in my life where I am able to help others to overcome their own female fitness/wellness problems, believe me you are not alone…. I disguised the bulging flesh the best I could,  after all I was Superwoman and did my clients really want a blobby, anxious personal trainer in her 50’s ? I am a really confident person and I am very happy with my lot, but here was one of the biggest challenges I ever had to face as a woman. As the title says...Feeling fat and frumpy! I  started getting anxious, panicky, feeling not good enough, questioning my worth. 1. Frumpy definition is - dowdy, drab: such as. Suddenly, and for the first time in my life.. I went from never eating chocolate and biscuits to not been able to eat enough. 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